The past week has been rather eventful. This is going to take up two whole blog posts. So to begin, Sunday through Wednesday (Thursday through Saturday will be coming shortly):
Last Sunday, I woke up early and headed out to the Arusha bus stand. It was pouring rain (typical of rainy season here in Arusha) but I now have an umbrella (yay!) and took a dalla dalla for half of it. I got onto the bus headed for Moshi. Moshi is a city nearby to Arusha, about an hour and a half bus ride. Moshi means "smoke" in Swahili. Once at the bus stand I headed for the area where the Moshi busses normally stand and was immediately surrounded by men yelling at me to come on to "their" bus. I went with the super nice coach bus (they all charge the same amount of money) and off I went towards Moshi.
The trip only took about an hour and a half and the drive was beautiful. The way to Moshi is mostly coffee plantations and of course, since Moshi sits at the base of Kilimanjaro, the mountain grew ever closer as the bus neared its destination. Unfortunately, it was cloudy so I couldn't see the top L
I walked around for Moshi for about an hour after I got there and fell in love with it. I wish GSC had it's offices there instead of in Arusha. It's this beautiful calm and laid back town. Because it's at a lower elevation than Arusha though, it's A LOT hotter. Everyone was really nice though, it was pleasant to not be hassled by shop keepers for being white.
I met Genevra around lunchtime (who had been visiting some friends who lived nearby) and we had lunch at the Fresh Restaurant (love the creative names) J. Then we went off to explore more of Moshi. It was mostly just walking around and shopping, but really nice. I bought some more souvenirs and gifts for people and looked at the lovely kangas people were selling ( I still haven't bought any, but I plan on it before going home). There is a smaller village about an hour past Moshi called Marangu that sits at the gate to Kilimanjaro National Park. Apparently there are three waterfalls nearby that are really nice to walk to, and a good way to explore around the base of Kili without having to pay the $60 entrance fee to get into the national park. We met a couple of tour guides that said they would take us, but they were asking ridiculous prices. We have decided to go back in a week to do the hike and to shop around a bit to find someone who will take us for a good price.
Before heading back on the bus we stopped in at the Tanzania Coffee House where I had a mango milkshake. It was delicious. I don't eat dairy products here very much, so its always a special treat when I get to drink a milkshake or eat cheese!
The drive back was fairly uneventful, but the people we were on the bus with loved having two mzungu girls on the bus with them, they chatted with us the whole ride to Arusha. I got home around 8pm, just in time to eat dinner with my family. It was all in all a very nice Sunday. I have pictures of this up on Picasa, I really liked getting a good view of Mt. Meru at dusk as we were driving back at night.
The next adventure began on Tuesday. At the hospital I have made friends with a girl called Rebecca. Rebecca is 19, just graduated from high school and is in the process of applying for university. In the meantime, she is working as an aide at St. Elizabeth's. Rebecca is from a Maasai village called Naalarahmi, which is outside of Arusha a bit. When Rebecca was 14, her father wanted her to marry an older man in their village (a fairly common practice for fathers to do this to their teenage daughters). Rebecca wanted to go to school instead, but her father didn't agree. So she ran away from home and went to an uncle's house who supported her getting an education. A few years into Secondary school, her father forgave her and she (mostly) gets along with her family now. She is a really strong, independent person and is really really cool. She was one of the first people who agreed to go to typing classes that I was teaching and really wants to learn as much as possible. I became friends with her right away.
She really wanted me to go to her village with her and meet her family. Last week there wasn't too much going on at the hospital, so I decided it was a good time to go.
Naalarahmi is a small village about a four (ish) hours walk from the closest road. There are cars (with four wheel drive) that do make the drive on Tuesdays and Wednesdays (market days in the closest area on the main road- Duka Bavu), but sometimes they charge exorbitant prices (because they know that people can't make the walk with the goods they want to sell at market, especially in rainy season when its really muddy). Rebecca wanted to take me on a Tuesday so that I wouldn't have to make the walk and then we could also get a ride back on Wednesday.
Tuesday morning I worked from 8 till 10 then went to meet Rebecca. We took the bus to Monduli (a little more than an hour trip) and got off at the market at Duka Bavu. Once at the market, we walked around and went shopping. Rebecca's father has fifteen wives and she doesn't know how many children (and she doubts he knows either). This means that her mother doesn't really get a lot of attention, food, money, etc. from her father (her mother is one of the middle wives). So whenever she goes home to visit she brings fresh vegetables (like tomatoes, potatoes, onions, carrots), as well as salt, tea, sugar, and sometimes as a special treat bread or blueband (a margarine that most people use on bread, etc.) or both to her mama.
Because her village is way out in the bush and not close to any source of water, her family doesn't eat fresh vegetables very often. In fact they must trek more than hour to the closest source of water. They only use the barest amounts of water to do things and use milk for drinking and making chai (there are many many cows to get milk from). Normally they only eat ugali (made from ground maize) and occasionally goat or beef (usually if a goat or cow dies from another cause, like sickness or old age- they will only kill one for eating purposes for a special occasion).
While we were shopping, many people came up to speak to us. It seemed like every person there was related to Rebecca. There was a constant stream of, " this is my brother, my sister, my cousin, my sister in law, my uncle." I did get to meet the uncle who paid for her schooling after she ran away from home. He was really nice and bought us sodas at the duka (Swahili for shop- usually used to describe the main bar/store of a village). We then ate lunch at a nearby restaurant (pilau with pilipili) then headed out to find a man who would drive us to her village.
We found a man with a Land Cruiser who was driving people into the village. He was charging 25,000 Tsh a head, a ridiculous price, but he was the only car going that night and agreed that he would take us back into town the next morning- so we went for it. The drive was cramped. Rebecca managed to finagle the front seat for us, so there were only three of us (Rebecca had to straddle the gear shift). In the back though there were about twenty people sitting in the trunk and back seat. There were also a few children, a goat, and all of the packages that people had bought at the market. The drive was only two hours, but the road was treacherous. There were times when the car was practically at a 45 degree angle and I was terrified that we were going to flip over (there are plenty of pictures and videos on picasa). Along the way we dropped people off as we passed their bomas, so by the time we reached Naalarahmi there were only about 8 or so of us left in the car.
As soon as we got out at Rebecca's boma, a number of her brothers and sisters (more than ten- beyond that I can't give a good estimate) crowded around us. They all began touching my clothes and skin- many had never seen a white person before. Eight of her father's wives lived in this area, each with her own house. The others lived in a different compound close by. I got introduced to so many people, I couldn't remember any of their names after I met them. I met Rebecca's mother, and her youngest sister (with the same mother and father) Selena (pronounced SAH-lay-nah). Then I went to meet Rebecca's father. In terms of Maasai elders, her father (who is very old- although he doesn't know how old) is a relatively well off man. He has many cows, many children, many wives and many goats (in order of importance to a Maasai man), which is how the Maasai distinguish wealth. He was really nice and surprisingly friendly. After hearing about Rebecca's experience, I was afraid that he was going to be stern and cold, but he was really warm and welcoming.
I then got a tour of the boma. The boma is the area which lies within the cow pen- normally a bunch of houses are there to house all of the family members, as well as storage huts, and pens for the other animals. At night they lay acacia branches in the openings to the cow pen, which works as a door to keep out wild animals from both the cow pen and the houses. Acacia branches are prickly. In addition to this, the warriors (those boys who have been circumcised but have not yet reached the age of young elders, roughly ages 12-18) stay awake and help guard the cattle at night. Living in Rebecca's boma are eight of her father's wives, their young children, and some of her brothers and their wives. There are many houses. Most of them do not cook inside of their houses since the smoke makes it harder to see and to breathe. So they use only one house for cooking- also where the warriors take turns sleeping at night. Inside the houses there is the main room, then a divided area, one side for men, one side for women. On the opposite side of the central area is a small area where the calves stay (so they can be more protected) along with the small children (yes they sleep with the baby cows).
There aren't any toilets or even holes in the ground in Maasai bomas. They just walk out behind their houses and find a pleasant spot to go. It was a bit of a strange sensation, since there aren't any doors, toilet paper, or privacy in any way. But not awful.
Rebecca then went to help her mother and some of the other wives prepare dinner. I stayed outside the cooking hut and played with the kids. They showed me some Maasai dances and sang for me and tried teaching me some of their songs. We then had a point and say the name game- where I taught them words in English and they taught me words in Maasai (neither one of us spoke Swahili very well- so this was rather interesting). After a while, many of the wives came outside and danced and sang for me. This was remarkable and a very cool experience. They layered necklaces on my neck and showed me how to make them bounce and jingle as I was dancing. By this time it was rather late and the sky was filled with stars. Every time I look at the sky here I am amazed. There are so many stars. Far more than I have ever seen before. In some areas, there are so many it's hard to see the dark sky, there are merely clusters of white spots filling up large portions of the available space.
Some of the constellations are the same (like Orion), but they call them different things – although the gods in the sky concept seems to be a common trend. The Maasai do use the stars to tell the seasons though. There are certain stars that only appear during rainy season. So they know that when those stars disappear, the rains will soon stop.
Soon it was time for dinner. Since I was a special guest her family had prepared meat for me (bought that day at the market) as well as potatoes and rice. I had seen the meat sitting out at 1pm that afternoon and it was then about 10pm at night. That's no refrigeration for 9 hours, in temperatures above 90* F. Because there weren't very many dishes and all of the wives and children were eating together, I shared a bowl with Rebecca and Selena. I managed to eat only the potatoes and rice – since the meat freaked me out- without seeming rude for not eating the meat – no one noticed. J
I had brought bottled water with me from Arusha, since Rebecca had warned me that the water situation wasn't the best. This turned out to be a very good thing. The water the Maasai used was muddy and there wasn't very much of it. They boiled the potatoes in it and cooked the rice in it, but they don't drink it. They only drink milk or chai. During dinner and for awhile after I sat with the wives and spoke with them, while Rebecca translated from Maasai to English (or Swahili if she didn't know the English for it). It was really interesting. They had a lot of questions about mzungos, and while I was content to just experience the Maasai lifestyle, it was nice to be able to ask them questions about their lifestyles, customs and beliefs. While we were eating, a few of the other wives showed up from the other boma to meet me and speak with me.
They lead a very close knit and social life amongst the wives. In some ways it is a really nice lifestyle. They cook communally often and hang out together all the time. They are very close to one another and care for one another in every way, taking care of each other's children, taking turns going to go get water, helping out when someone is ill. Some parts of their lifestyles are not ideal though.
They still circumcise their girls (officially labeled female genital mutilation) once they reach puberty so that "they will not feel tempted to have sex." I met the two women who do this for the village. They are very nice and explained to me why they do it and how they do it. In their village, no man will marry a girl if she is not circumcised. He is afraid that she will stray from their marriage if she is not circumcised. The women also believe that they need to be circumcised so that they will not have bad or impure thoughts.
Boys are also circumcised around the age of ten or twelve. While girls are circumcised in private and are given a silver chain after the event to tell men that they are available for marriage, boys are circumcised in public in the middle of the cow pens. Women are not allowed to attend the circumcisions, only men. The boy is not allowed to cry while this is happening – he has to prove his strength to become a warrior.
The Maasai women found it strange that men have only one wife in America. They also thought it was weird that we don't eat goat or ugali and that most houses have electricity and running water. It's hard to answer their questions honestly, because they don't know anything other than what is in their village. So even a house like theirs with running water is an unbelievable thing, but explaining that their whole house which sleeps ten people is the size of my bedroom would be a ridiculous thing to tell them (so I only mention certain things about America). It's also hard to answer questions about money. These families make roughly $400 dollars a year. I couldn't honestly explain that I could make more than that in a week in America. So I tried to steer their questions towards customs rather than lifestyles and living arrangements.
After dinner the women made chai. This involved pouring milk (straight from a cow) into a pot along with tea leaves and sugar and putting it into an open fire. After it was done they strained the tea leaves out and handed around mugs (I got my own because I was a guest but many people had to share). The tea was really milky and thick, but I actually rather liked it despite not normally liking milk.
The women danced and sang a bit for me again after dinner before heading back to their respective houses. I then went with Rebecca to the house where her father was currently sleeping. He takes turns sleeping with his wives, randomly going to different houses each night. I got to speak with him a bit and talk to him about his cows. This was interesting because I learned about how they graze their cows and how he views women, education, mzungos and so forth. I asked him if he had ever killed a lion – he said yes, and I thought this was really exciting.
It was then time for bed. So that I wouldn't feel cramped sleeping with all of Rebecca's siblings and her mother in her mom's house, we got to sleep in a storage house that had a bed in it (just the two of us and one of Rebecca's sisters). The beds consist of mud shelves along the sides of the house, covered with cow skins. It was particularly hard and not super comfortable, but I still managed to sleep well. For a blanket I had a thin Maasai shuka to cover myself.
The next morning we woke at dawn and headed out to milk the cows before they were let out for the day. Rebecca showed me how to milk one, holding it's teat into a calabash to catch the milk. I was awful at it. The teat was slimy and felt all nipple-ly and the whole time I felt like I was hurting the poor cow. They tied its back legs together so it wouldn't kick me, but she still managed to move around a lot, especially because there was a baby cow trying to drink out of her udder at the same time that I was trying to steal her milk. I managed to squirt milk all over my arm, and then I gave up and Rebecca finished. It was really fun trying to do it though.
We then went to make chai with the milk we had just gotten from the cow. I had bought bread and blueband for everyone at the market the day before, so we ate that as well. For the warriors and those not in Rebecca's immediate family, Rebecca's mama made ugali – the normal breakfast food to eat along with chai.
I had also brought a piece of cloth as a gift for Rebecca's mother. I gave it to her in the morning after breakfast. Rebecca had also told me that it was customary for guests to honor the father by giving him a small amount of money, so I gave him 5000 Tsh (about $4). In return, Rebecca's mother gave me a beautiful beaded necklace – it's white beads in an intricately designed shape that Rebecca tells me means good luck. There are pictures of this on Picasa.
The man who was going to drive us back was going to arrive around 830 so after the gift giving there was a series of picture taking – everyone loved having their pictures taken.
Then off we headed back towards the main road. Along the way we picked up people, goats, gallons of milk, children, and cartons of empty soda bottles until the car was even more full than it had been the day before. Once again, Rebecca and I got to sit in the front seat with the driver. On the way back one part of the road that we had managed to get through the day before had gotten worse due to the high number of cars passing through for market day. When we got to the spot there were multiple cars waiting to try pushing through the mud. All of the passengers got out of the car and walked across so that the cars would be lighter traveling across the gulch. I have a video of this on Picasa.
We eventually made it back to Arusha though by about 1pm. Rebecca and I ate lunch in town then I headed home. It was great experience and I'm glad I got see her village and sleep in a Maasai boma!
This past weekend I went to a Tanzanian wedding! But this is already a long post- so I will write about that shortly.